i wanted to talk to you guys about something today, because it's a topic that's been weighing pretty heavily on my soul and my conscience as of late. we all have been through this at some point, be it right now or a long time ago or sometime in the future, but we've all had to make that hard decision to separate from someone that used to matter a lot to us. there are a lot of reasons for having to do this, but in the end it's always the same: you have to reconcile the fact that how much you care about someone doesn't outweigh the negative effect they have on your existence. and so, in small ways and big ones, we have to cut the ties and turn